FET: Kink & BDSM Dating
June 15, 2024
More About FET: Kink & BDSM Dating
FIND YOUR FETISH FAMILY
New to the FET lifestyle or an experienced kinkster? No problem, FET is a safe place to learn and explore BDSM and fetish. Whatever your kink or your fetish, we support and encourage our kinky community to share and learn from each other. On FET, we want everyone to master their kinky lifestyle, so come on in, get kinkd up with us!
1 IN 3 HAVE A FETISH
FET is the place to uncover more about the BDSM and fetish lifestyle, find munches, fetish parties, BDSM dating and more. You're sure to find tons of like-minded kinksters who share your fetishes. No matter where you are - whether playing in the deepest darkest of dungeons or out and about in your daily life - the FET community is here for you!
UNLEASH YOUR TRUE SELF
Whip your profile into shape. Upload that selfie and tell kinksters a bit about your kinky self. ;) Safely share your photos and show off your kinky FET lifestyle...
DISCOVER KINKSTERS LIKE YOU
Finding and keeping in touch with fellow kinksters is easy with our 24/7 newsfeed, free messaging and live chat. If you're looking for that special sub-one, there are kinksters for everyone out there in the Fetish & BDSM dating community - or right here at your fingertips. With just a few taps, start meeting kinksters near you.
BDSM = SAFETY FIRST ALWAYS
With great kink comes great responsibility #SSC: For added confidence and a #kinktastic BDSM dating community experience, everyone can verify their profile for free on FET. Having a verified kinkster profile is an excellent way to show other kinksters that you're authentic and not a bot. You can also discreetly sign up with your Facebook account; no one has to know, but you.
WELCOME TO YOUR KINKY WORLD
Our vision is to be the world's most trusted Fetish and BDSM dating community. A safe, sane and consensual home for kinksters and the kink-curious that demystifies alternative lifestyles and provides a user-friendly dating solution.
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All personal data is handled under the terms and conditions of FET's privacy policy. More details can be found here: https://www.fet-app.com/en/privacy
Latest Version
12.0.0
June 15, 2024
Ideawise Ltd.
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Android
239,309
Free
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User Reviews
todieinkyoto
2 years ago
Some of the better conversations about kink that I've had, but in an app that's plagued with a lot of issues that can often make for an incredibly frustrating user experience. Frequent crashes while typing in chat/ regularly displays a blank white page that requires a reboot to remove/ notifications don't send to my phone/ photos sent in chat sometimes take hours to load in/ you're only supposed to be able to send one message until the match responds, but the feature is inconsistent at best
M B
1 year ago
There's issues with messaging. Your filtering sucks without membership. Please don't flaunt your point system in response; It's not an answer to every usability complaint. It takes months to rack up enough points for one month worth of membership. I'm taking my review down a star because after this latest update, the app randomly kicks open my web browser with a spam alert that prompts you to download Spyware. Download if you wanna get f**ked, but it won't be the way you want. Do Better.
NaupaSONIC
2 years ago
This seems like the BEST app so far! So close! I would just like to be able to @ least filter out 1 or more of these 3 options! Sexuality (If they are straight or not), what they are looking for (ltr or nsa), and if they are top or bottom. Cause having to tap *Every* profile to see if it is within all 3 every time is pretty annoying. I *love* the rest of the app though! Intuitive, clear, open, and wonderful resources included! Was not expecting that! Just a few more search options please!
Chris Navarro
2 years ago
It's a fun entertaining app with a lot of potential. But it crashes, lags, and freezes still during messages even after the update and me closing the app and restarting my phone. Also is there anyway to get rid of inactive accounts? Keep finding ppl who haven't been on in months even years. It's also kind of frustrating when the ppl you match with live hundreds or thousands of miles away, outside you search parameters. This app is better than most.
Sin Bas
2 years ago
The idea is marvelous. The execution needs improvements a lot! Messaging: MUST type your message on an external app and then copy and paste it otherwise it becomes REALLY choppy. Force quit & restart is required multiple times because notifications do not match the app. Thank you for all your hard work. I gave two star to grab your attention, you are all 5 stars.
Dylon Nolte
2 years ago
Not bad but buggy and needs work. When I edit any text there is a 90% chance it'll slow the app to a crawl and crash. Also, the profile pages don't reflect the line breaks. Finally, where it says hard limits is translated into Spanish on the profile. Other than that there seems to be real people and enough of a community. Sending people little icons to show interest is fun.
MIR
2 years ago
App crashes very often and locks up in a blank white screen. The only way out of it: close and restart the app, which also loses the last page you were on. The chat feature is... The worse I have ever seen on any app. Most of the time it's delayed and doesn't push update automatically. Sometimes it doesn't even show you have an unviewed message. Only remedy is to refresh the chat a lot. I end up using their website instead of the app, as that works better. Love the idea, PLEASE FIX THIS !!!
Ch3mical Rainb0wz
2 years ago
Overall doesn't seem bad, but there's an egregious over monetization issue compared to many other apps. Notifications not working properly means that if you don't check the app in time, your matches and anyone who's liked you will be hidden, and you have to have a subscription to unlock them. The matches and likes being time sensitive is an interesting choice to say the least.
Demi Hahn
2 years ago
Every feature that could be considered usable is locked behind an unnecessarily high subscription. The app isn't all that user friendly either and I can't imagine that it's any easier to navigate once you coughed up your subscription. Also, no way to filter out people you don't want to see. So that's pretty irritating as well. Skip this one.
Mike Everson
2 years ago
A great app plagued with usability issues. The UI is generally good, but jumpy and will just bounce to a completely new section when loading new posts. The filter ability is poor. The location filtering doesn't work for much of anything, you can't filter based on matching interests, etc. Additionally messages will just periodically be deleted from your inbox. The user base is growing, this app could be great. It needs the kinks (pun intended) worked out
Auset Shnaiun
1 year ago
I can not upload photos, at all. I wanted to update my photos so I deleted all of the old ones but when it can to the last process of uploading pictures it just didn't and went back to the section for choosing if you want it public or private. And not having photos of myself ruins the experience. It's both frustrating and annoying that I can't upload photos
Deandra Jutila
1 year ago
For the first day I was able to navigate the app with little to no difficulty. Pictures take a while to upload, even after being verified, but that's not an issue. Unfortunately, it only took a day for my account to crash. It asked me to verify my account a second time with a photo along with my username and the date. I've done this twice now, and I'm still unable to use my account. I sent in a ticket, but I'm still waiting. I don't plan make to remake my account if the issue can't be fixed.
Derek Conver
1 year ago
I would love to give this a better rating. The concept and platform are pretty standard and it works fairly well. I'm not having trouble finding people in a reasonable distance to chat with. However, the app has some serious bugs. I can't complete my profile. The selectable options to change details about yourself like ethnicity, height, weight, glasses, body hair etc, are all non-functional. Furthermore I can't become verified because the function to do won't change screen to allow me to.
Maddelyn S
1 year ago
Decent concept but has a Long way to go. You get bombarded with notifications from the app, but no way to turn those or any notifications off. You can only disable email. The selection is lacking and inactive. Mostly just old guys from what I saw. And even selecting your desired age range doesn't keep them away. Needs a lot of improvements but has a decent foundation. I gave you an extra star for that. Only let's you deactivate not delete your account though so major negative hit for that.
Jameson
1 year ago
Was one of the best apps ever- until it kept making me verify with photo after photo, and now won't even let me in. What the heck, all those conversations and friends I made- gone. The worst part is they think I ghosted them. Smh :( One of the few apps you can say you would have been emotionally better off not to even try because they just cut you off with no notice.
J B
1 year ago
Always remember this is an app. Like all others it has limiations, but by far the best Kink centered app I have been on. Like every app you can let people know what you are interested in, and take a quiz to figure out where you place in certain aspects of BDSM. THE BIGGEST benefit of this app is the classes and articles they offer, so you aren't just stagnant. You can learn more about new kinks, or well established ones. You can learn why you might respond some way to certain stimuli.
Butterflies' Ratatouille
1 year ago
This app is pure garbage and a waste of time. It was fine at first and an excellent idea until I was made to verify my account two separate times and every time I reached out to support for help, I was sent back an email in German, and zero response back with no number to call to get direct help. This app doesn't care about it's users and is just trying to make as much money off of you as humanly possible. Don't waste your time
Kr Ha
1 year ago
It has potential. Its review history is concerning. It honestly feels more like a giant advertising platform for their digital classes. Unfortunately, after looking through the course packet content, they seem disappointingly threadbare for the price. Their content layout seems more focused advertising kink proudcts over deeper education. It seems like a huge product push, especially since the forum area only has their content topic "academy" available. Not bad, but not overly impressive.
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1 year ago
Was previously a good useable site. You got some good features and could pay for more premium features. They take all of your information and give you almost zero worthwhile functionality without paying for the service. It's a shame. Years ago, i had no problem paying for some premium features. Will try to delete my profile afterwhich i will uninstall.
kitty k
1 year ago
I genuinely had a good first impression of this app, but any opinions are useless when hardly 48 hours into having it, my account got locked/hidden (presumably due to lack of verification, seeing that I wasn't doing anything to violate T.O.S conditions) and no one on Fet support or service has gotten back to me to even confirm that much. It's very frustrating, because I have no problem with verifying, but every ticket response is automated. If you need help, don't get your hopes up.
